darklite ASMR

!!! UPDATE
Hi friends, LONG read incoming 💕
I have decided to cancel the Patreon Q&A freebie video that I posted about last night for now, because I am mentally exhausted from the changes of the type of engagement in the community.

While I did face some challenges in the beginning as a newbie creator ~ I didn’t really know how to deal with certain behaviors at the time so it led me to focusing on reiki inspired content ~ you guys have always been nothing but supportive, shared funny comments, opinions, and ideas and I loved reading every single one of them.

However, I’ve been struggling with a significant shift in our comment section for the past couple of months. Looking back, it’s quite ironic, and frankly disappointing, to see that the shift to reiki inspired videos has attracted this behavior more than ever before.

I’m not going to talk about the traditional Jikiden reiki and my background in it (which is not related to reiki roleplays you see in my videos). But sadly being inspired by such a practice which is very personal by nature, seemes to weirdly bring these feelings of intimacy and healer receiver type of connection to some individuals ~ which they weaponized and/or fetishized. The comments I’m receiving lately have nothing to do with my posts or my ASMR and are all about my looks and some weird attempt to create a romantic connection with me to a point where it feels like I’m not even on YouTube anymore.

I’ve been looking at my analytics for the longest time trying to see what is it that’s allowing this behaviour and there has been a noticable change in certain demographics who are misinterpreting these videos as some form of romantic service, dating platform and healing them personally, and it’s not normal.

It’s reached a point where many of you who come here for the right reasons feel uncomfortable engaging because the comment section lately has been filled with these people, and I refuse to let that continue.

I am sooo tired of being "nice" about this and pretending like I don’t see anything.

To my genuine community: I see you, and thank you for being the best 💕I need your help to keep this space chill and safe. If you see comments that are inappropriate, or include any form of video unrelated flattery (we all know what I mean) please ignore them, flag them, whatever you like and type away your comments which I am more than happy to read!!

Nothing that these people do will ever affect my love for ASMR, our community, my creativity or will and inspiration to produce more videos.

Thank you for reading this far and thank you for being a part of my entire YouTube journey… you have truly been here and seen me learn and pivot as I go. I’m ending this post on a positive note and want to say that we are closer to 100k then ever which is truly surreal arhhh and I hope that my upcoming videos bring new vibes and nothing but Zzz’s and laughs 💕

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IMPORTANT 💜 hello everyone, I’m posting this again because my previous post may have brought some confusion due to the screenshot of a TikTok profile that I shared. This is a reminder that I do not use any social media other than what is listed in my YouTube bio. Please be aware of scammers. I will never message you privately anywhere to ask for money, crypto, or personal information. I will never engage in any form of private messaging at all.

if I ever do create a new account, you will hear it officially from me, here on YouTube.

I don’t have TikTok, but if you do please report the accounts impersonating me so we can keep the community safe and clean.

Here are the links to both profiles that I found:

www.tiktok.com/@darkliteasmr121
www.tiktok.com/@darkliteasmr1

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Hi guyss ♡ three new videos are up on my Patreon now ☺️ www.patreon.com/darkliteASMR?utm_campaign=creators…

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Guysss, I’m having trouble uploading my latest video (>﹏<) It’s been stuck on processing for 6 hours now and it seems to be an internal issue on YouTube. I hope the issue will clear in a couple of hours, if not I will post as soon as it does. Please bear with me 💗

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Hi friends! 💕 we haven’t done fun questions in a minute!

1. If you could instantly learn one skill, what would it be?
2. If you could only watch/listen to one ASMR trigger for the rest of your life, what would it be?

can’t wait to read your answers, always love getting to know who you are
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Hey guys, long read incoming 💗

As you can see, my channel has been going through a bit of an identity crisis ever since I moved apartments 3 months ago. In my current place I only have one quiet room, which is quite small. I know you guys probably don’t care about the room decor and background, but I feel it’s something that can subtly influence the ASMR experience. Because of that, I’ve been experimenting with different backgrounds, setups, and video ideas to see what works best.

Another thing is — I really wanted to upload twice a week, but since I live in a busy neighborhood it’s been difficult to find quiet moments. Because of that, I’m going back to Sunday uploads as my main upload day, with the occasional midweek uploads when my neighborhood is quiet enough.

I really appreciate everyone who continues to watch and support the channel while I figure out the best setup. Since I’m not just a creator but also watch ASMR myself, I know how changes in visuals, pace and style can affect the experience.

I recently bought a black backdrop that I’m hoping will help both visually and with sound. 🤞

Also, I saw a few concerned comments on my last video — I’m doing well and feeling great. My dark circles are genetic, not related to being tired or sick.

Please let me know in the comments:
• What do you enjoy most about my channel?
• Do you prefer certain backgrounds?
• What type of videos are you happiest to see on my channel?

Thank you for your continued support, much love ^^

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New roleplay video is up on Patreon 💜www.patreon.com/posts/patreon-asmr-you-149945701

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Hello everybody, I finally opened my personal Instagram account!! 💜 Give it a follow: www.instagram.com/aleksandraaalexandra

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Today is a National Hugging Day so consider yourself hugged by blessings. Things will resolve for you. Whatever you’re going through, you will come out much stronger. Any plans that you have will be successful! hugs xo 🙏🏻✨

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A couple of photos from my camera roll recently 💙 BTW I love asking you guys fun questions so today’s question is: what’s your biggest pet peeve?

I have quite a few of them but I’d say top 3 are:
1. chewing with your mouth open 2. when someone is walking or standing too close to me 3. having to repeat myself

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