The Attractive Man
Learn how to attract women you like, how to get a date, how to get a girlfriend, how to talk to girls without being creepy, plus more deeper and natural attraction advice. This is Honest Dating Advice that's non-manipulative. We offer coaching for men and in-person as well as online mentroship too, with online dating tips and methods to increase your self confidence and self esteem to bring out the best, most attractive version of yourself. The Official YouTube Channel of The Attractive Man Team.
The Attractive Man
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The Attractive Man
Guys let women treat them like sh*t (and she hates it)
Well, some guys…
“Nice guys”...
And women will never respect a guy like that.
So remember, gents…
There’s a fine line between being a nice person.
(Which all people want to be around)
And being a people-pleaser
A pushover
A man who lacks a backbone
A man who is unsure of himself
This must be avoided
If this is you…
First recognize the problem
And next understand that fixing it should be the goal
Men will respect you more
Women will want you more
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3 days ago | [YT] | 163
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The Attractive Man
Social media isn't showing you the full picture.
It's showing you women at their worst, not their best.
The algorithms push outrage over warmth.
And a vocal few men are telling you to give up entirely.
To go your own way. That women have "changed."
But ask yourself: if you could find a good woman, would you want one?
Because I've spent 15 years coaching men who thought that wasn't possible.
They were convinced the odds were stacked against them.
Most of them now have the relationship they wanted.
The problem was never women.
It was never having the right guidance.
If you're ready for that, book a call.
Go here: theattractiveman.com/yt-session
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The Attractive Man
Most men are wrong about modern women…
I’ve been to half the countries on this planet
Dated women in literally half the world’s countries
And I can tell you, if you learn the basics of attracting women…
You can absolutely get an amazing woman
Don’t fall for the lies that some men say about “modern women”
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The Attractive Man
Here’s the thing about my travels…
Besides from these lackluster countries for dating…
Most countries are incredible for cold approach.
Going up to a woman in public, in everyday situations is something women all over the world want men to do.
But men don’t do it.
They stick to swiping.
Or dancing in a nightclub at 3am.
Waking up the next day regretting things they did, said, and feeling like garbage.
But here’s the crazy thing…
Dating apps are insanely competitive for men.
Infact, they’re mostly men!
And it’s not just men that dislike dating apps.
Women are now ditching dating apps and opting to meet men in-person.
Will you be the confident men that meets these women?
Or will you hope you get a match on dating apps.
Having a good conversation, then she ghosts.
Cause you’re going up against such competition.
When I first started doing this, there was no dating apps for the most part.
Another cool thing about taking the skill of cold approach travelling…
I’ve literally had a date in the same day as arriving to a city.
On numerous occasions.
What an awesome tour of a new city.
You can take this skill anywhere!
Except maybe 2026 Iran.
If you’d like to learn this powerful skill
The skill that would solve most men’s dating problems
Follow me on IG: @mattartisan and DM me “APPROACH”
And I’ll send you a copy of my approach blueprint
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The Attractive Man
Redpill says “don’t chase women”, here’s how that hurts your dating life:
Look… men are already not taking enough action
Guys will look at a girl they like in the gym 20 times and almost never go say hello
Guys think going up to a girl in public is “weird”
So they instead hit the night clubs at 3am in the morning,
Get blackout drunk,
And wake up the next day thinking that meeting women is a waste of time
So most guys are already not living their best dating lives…
And then on top of that…
You get these “experts” telling you to “don’t chase women”
So you’re advised to just sit there, hit the gym, make money and expect women to be approaching you
Unfortunately, you aren’t a hot girl.
The opposite sex won’t approach you.
You aren’t a famous, multimillionaire with millions of followers.
So here’s what I advise…
Learn how to approach women in everyday situations.
I’m telling you, when you learn this, your dating life will transform.
Humans are social creatures.
There’s studies now showing that socialising and living a long life are correlated.
Loneliness is an epidemic now.
When you can strike up conversations with women anywhere, and setup dates, while having an amazing conversation
You’ll feel incredible
But your dating life will transform also
Women badly want men to approach them in person
But the question is, will you be the confident guy to do that?
I’m giving away an approach blueprint to a few men that want to finally start winning with dating
Message me APPROACH on my IG: @mattartisan to get the copy
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The Attractive Man
15 Fundamental Truths About Attracting Women Your Father Never Taught You:
(After 15+ years as a dating coach)
3 weeks ago | [YT] | 270
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The Attractive Man
What matters is how you make women feel.
I’ve been in this industry for over a decade
I’ve met thousands of men
All walks of life
And one group of men I’ve met?...
Rich men.
Now here’s what most people think:
If I get rich - then women will want me.
Wrong.
It’s a bit more nuanced than that.
I’ve met a billionaire who was great at making money.
But not great with women.
So before you go working 16 hour days hoping that hitting 6-figures will finally get you a girlfriend…
I warned you.
So become a well rounded guy.
Have a purpose in life.
Be funny.
Look your best.
Take your self-care seriously.
And be charming with women.
Trust me…
When you have EVERYTHING aligned, it’s easy.
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3 weeks ago | [YT] | 313
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The Attractive Man
Guys aren’t shooting their shot with women.
You think she’s out of your league.
You think going up to her in public is weird.
You think you aren’t good enough.
You think you aren’t financially stable enough.
Let me tell you man - that’s bullsh*t.
You know what you need?
You need to stack some wins under your belt.
Get some numbers.
Get on some dates.
You telling yourself you can’t approach her is a big reason you aren’t stacking those wins.
Or if you ARE approaching…
You aren’t getting feedback from anyone.
Like someone being thrown into a boxing match after never hitting a bag.
You’re making the same mistakes constantly without anyone telling you what to do.
That’s why you need us to put you out there into the world, while we watch, guide you and listen to you (you’ll be mic’d up).
I’ve done this with thousands of men for more than 15 years.
It still works just as well.
To discuss that further, send me a DM ony my IG: @mattartisan
Go out there and live your best dating lives.
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The Attractive Man
I've been a dating coach for 15+ years
Here's 15 dating tips men must follow:
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