Confidence for Women Over 40 — one honest conversation at a time.
I'm Joy. I'm navigating Sisterlocks, CCCA (Central Centrifugal
Cicatricial Alopecia), gray hair, faith, and the full experience
of midlife as a woman. This is where I document the real journey
— the hair, the beauty, the mindset, and the meaning behind it all.
🌿 What you'll find here:
· Sisterlocks care + monthly loc updates
· CCCA awareness + scalp health
· Makeup & beauty for women over 40
· Confidence, faith & identity
· Whole woman midlife living
📥 Free Wash Day Guide (what actually works for Sisterlocks + alopecia):
→ mailchi.mp/a34c9a91ca51/my-wash-day-routine
New videos every Saturday. Subscribe if this resonates with you.💛
I am not a medical professional. Please consult your dermatologist before starting new health routines.
📸 Linktree: linktr.ee/joyspeakslove
📧 Business Inquiries: joyspeakslove.business@gmail.com
Joy Speaks Love
I just uploaded the video I wish I had seen 5 years ago. The 'ugly stage' is real, but it’s not the end of the story.
https://youtu.be/lhsokNYT3bo?si=clPM_...
1 month ago | [YT] | 1
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I finally sat down to share something that was difficult to film, but so necessary to say. 💛 For a long time, I didn't know what was happening with my scalp. My ccca diagnosis was a shock, but it wasn't the end of my loc journey and I'm still here!
If you’ve been feeling confused, discouraged, or just 'stuck' with your hair loss, I’m sharing my story in this video.
You aren’t alone in this. Let’s talk in the comments. 👇
https://youtu.be/uCvu48EoLFU
2 months ago | [YT] | 2
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In this video I'm doing a fresh retie reveal, showing my clean parts, checking my length (armpit length, y'all! 🙌), and walking you through exactly what I'm doing this week instead of washing.
https://youtu.be/uYzEDbHnVEI?si=yFXc6...
3 months ago | [YT] | 4
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In this video, I’m sharing all the details of my full wash day routine which is tailored to my small locs, alopecia, and dry hair.
https://youtu.be/uL3No2qIWZY?si=RQqL2...
3 months ago | [YT] | 2
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I just followed up with my dermatologist about my CCCA Alopecia and in this video I’m sharing a quick update about what she told me.
https://youtu.be/KunHgY5txLE?si=f2yaI...
3 months ago | [YT] | 2
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My full spring makeup routine is live on my channel 🌸
https://youtu.be/jFNTivGTO4g?si=LHaar...
3 months ago | [YT] | 3
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My month 61 Sisterlocks and CCCA/Alopecia update is now up on the channel. https://youtu.be/60QnHk5UkwE?si=E19hK...
4 months ago | [YT] | 3
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Is your scalp already mad at you this winter? ❄️
I just shared my Winter Loc & Scalp Care routine – gentle enough for sensitive, alopecia-prone scalps.
Watch here: How To Stop Dry, Itchy Scalp in Winter | Winter Loc Care Routine
https://youtu.be/xwOh9AR_l7o
Comment “SCALP” if this is what you’ve been dealing with lately.
5 months ago | [YT] | 2
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I was this close to cutting off my Sisterlocks. 💔
https://youtu.be/SxRnEg3JydM
7 months ago (edited) | [YT] | 1
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💛 We live in a world that reacts fast but listens slow.
Today on Joy Speaks Love, I’m reflecting on Ayesha Curry’s recent interview — not the headlines, but the honesty behind her words. She talked about growth, self-awareness, and learning to be whole while the world watches.
✨ Watch the full reflection → What Ayesha Curry’s Honesty Really Teaches Us 💛
https://youtu.be/cOu8jiFHro4
What stood out to you most about her story? Let’s talk about it below. 🌿
8 months ago | [YT] | 3
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