Katey Shanahan | Love & Soma

Hi, I'm Katey. I'm a Somatic Dating & Relationship Coach. I help women remember their feminine power and use the wisdom of their bodies to experience deeply fulfilling relationships with men.

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Katey Shanahan | Love & Soma

If you've ever felt real chemistry with someone and ended up heartbroken wondering what happened, this is for you.

The moment chemistry hits, we immediately attach a story to it. It sounds like:

This must mean something.
If I feel this strongly, this has to go somewhere.
Maybe this is the one.

And the second that story gets attached, you stop experiencing the actual person in front of you. You're not dating him anymore. You're dating the story. The version of him you've already decided he is...instead of who he's actually showing you.

And it's the STORY, not the chemistry — that creates the urgency. The need to lock it down. The overthinking. The heartbreak when it falls apart.

Chemistry is getting labeled as a red flag across the board, and I just don't think that's true or helpful.

What actually needs to be understood is the difference between what your body is feeling and what your mind is immediately doing with it.

Those are two different things. And once you can feel the difference, a lot changes.

You deserve chemistry AND connection if you want it. But you need the capacity to HOLD IT.

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