Matthias J Barker

Going Live tomorrow at 11am ct! Let's talk Parent - Adult Child conflict and estrangement!

If you want to leave me a voice-message for me to play and answer on air, talk to me here: www.speakpipe.com/matthias

6 months ago (edited) | [YT] | 17

Matthias J Barker

When you grow up around toxic behaviors, it makes sense that you’d be drawn towards relationships that mimic those behaviors because it reminds you of the love you had as a kid:

- constant criticism
- lack of boundaries
- invalidation

That’s a common result of childhood trauma.

2 years ago | [YT] | 112

Matthias J Barker

Cutting someone off isn't about getting the other person to change; we’re not holding the relationship hostage. It's about clarity, creating the space you need to heal, and reclaiming your peace.

2 years ago | [YT] | 97

Matthias J Barker

Here's the truth: You can deeply appreciate someone and still call out a toxic behavior. It's not about choosing one over the other.

2 years ago | [YT] | 57

Matthias J Barker

Just posted some YouTube Shorts! I'm planning on getting more active on my YouTube channel this summer!! Thanks for hanging in there! Excited for the future!

4 years ago | [YT] | 88

Matthias J Barker

Check out the podcast I did with Joey! Great times and thought provoking conversation!

5 years ago | [YT] | 46