Stefania Mariaa
I'm Stefania, aka Stefania Mariaa, and this is obviously my channel. Here we deal in ass, cash, and sass.
We cut through the noise of toxic positivity and get real about life. As a multi-disciplinary coach, I'm here to guide powerful women home to their embodiment (ass), financial intimacy (cash), and authentic expression (sass) without self-sacrifice and abandonment.
We dive deep into topics like self-gaslighting, and the raw, unfiltered realities of money and the personal growth that comes from it all. No sugar-coating, no fluff, just honest, provocative discussions about the challenges we face.
Join me as we navigate the morally-grey areas of life, together - with none of the shame.
Stefania Mariaa
đź’ĄTrue intuition will always be right, regardless of our ignoring it. The choice is whether or not we require burns to prove it.đź’Ą
When your martyrdom is leading you will go through a painful journey just to prove you were right.
To sacrifice yourself on an endless loop just to end back where you started.
Because if you just followed that intuitive knowing
— that instinctual truth
— You'd have to be with all the energy you'd rather waste by burning it in the drama.
🔥⛽️ kerosene.
unpacking the self-gaslight.
Join me for the 1-day LIVE online workshop on September 16th
+ a full month of digital coaching and teachings to integrate what gets uncovered.
• Discover stories you tell yourself to abandon what you know
• Reveal the self-sacrificial & martyrdom patterns that bind you
• Release the attachment to tolerating what you do not deserve
• and let go of what you wish would stay.
Learn more here (plus watch a free video to feel into this body of work)
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Stefania Mariaa
You’re going to need to forgive them.
For sheltering you, and leaving you in the dark about how the world works
Or for enrolling you full time in the school of hard knocks to learn everything on your own.
For doing everything for you and never showing what that took.
Or for doing nothing for you and never seeing how much it did.
No parent is going to get raising us right.
The only thing we can guarantee is that they are trying to avoid passing you the trauma and the pain they’ve held on to,
That they’re attempting to save you from the very resentments against their own parents.
They don’t want you to resent them.
They don’t want you to pedestalize them.
Every parent.
Wants the best for their child.
And.
Their best won’t be good enough.
Certainly not to the part of you that wants life to be seemless and without any problems.
I won’t apologize for it. I won’t say “I’m sorry you had to experience that” towards the miswiring of how life works handed down to you from your parents, their parents before them.
I will say I am proud of you.
I am so fucking proud that you made it through everything you did.
But that pride stops when you harbour that resentment. Because that’s exactly what’s keeping you broke.
You’re consistently investing into behaviours that perpetuate the stories you have about your parents
Instead of investing into the story that’s being created in this very moment.
Their best wasn’t good enough, and your right.
But what the fuck are you going to do about it?
Let that be the reason why you’re life isn’t aligned?
Or.
Will you finally extend them the very grace you’ll inevitably need when your best isn’t good enough?
đź“· 2010 Prom
Before I really learned to say Thank You, Mom & Dad.
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Stefania Mariaa
NOTHING WILL HAPPEN IF YOU STAY CLOSED.
And that is entirely the point.
Nothing will happen.
Nothing will change.
Nothing will evolve.
Everything will stay as it is
And as it will ever be.
You can settle down here.
You can rest in the predictability.
And the fortunes you can guarantee yourself.
Yet when you feel this truth
Discomfort settles in your bones
You don’t actually like it— do you?
You don’t like knowing that everything COULD be different but you choose for it to stay the same.
That better than imagined is quite possible, yet you fear having to recieve what is.
Worried about what will fall away, instead of seeing all that will come.
OPENING is what your heart longs for, yet this static unchanging spot feels like it has a hold over it.
Because Staying closed is a form of protection
A fight for knowing how our stories end
Without the risk of living it out loud, moment to moment.
So we grip, we contract.
We hold steadfast in how things are
Even if they’re the no-name-brand of thing we truly desire.
Because we know:
If we open
If we back that opening.
Nothing will be as its been.
Yet still.
That’s the point.
And it’s the thing we deeply yearn for.
To live with our hearts wide open
Wet and dripping with everything we really are
🍑
SUPPLE
6 Months
8 Women
& Your Opening
What is it that is yours to have, that simply requires you opening to receive?
Something beyond what you could possibly imagine.
Let your desire lead you to apply.
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Stefania Mariaa
You’re going to notice the volume of the blood in your own body.
Sweat begins to roll down your neck, pooling into your chest.
It’s wet. It’s hot. And it has you feeling ready to blow.
This isn’t your normal.
You’re used to frozen and stagnent.
Too cold to get too close.
But now the water is rushing, your blood is pumping, and your body is holding more than it ever has.
You choose to soften.
You breathe deeper.
You open wider.
And you pause.
It was never about the heat.
It was about becoming
wet.
lush.
plump.
&
SUPPLE
And discovering the truth of you on the other side.
6 months
8 women
& Your Opening
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Stefania Mariaa
THE NEUSEA OF HAVING.
I feel sick. Ready to throw up
Not because I have a bug
Or because I’m flying
But rather because I asked for something
And now it’s on route to me.
It’s in this moment the queasiness starts
I can feel my chest expand and the wild energy start to roar.
When our system is used to not having what we want, that becomes to the default.
Going without becomes the standard and the norm.
So when we actually get to have the things we truly desire
Our system begins to clock out- rattling at full speed.
If your not careful your mind will interject and stop you from having to HAVE exactly what you asked for.
Causing a massive distraction to pull you away from the present moment.
To retract you from becoming the person who gets to have it.
So in this spot I breathe.
In this spot I get ready to cry.
I feel my jaw chatter
And my chest break.
These are not “signs” that things are going bad
No this is what it feels like to recalibrate.
To be raw and open to reality unfolding for you.
And finally let it all in.
✨Written 08.2020✨
This is what it means to OPEN
To follow the felt thread within you
And surrender to it entirely.
Parts of you will shake and fall away
All that is not true won’t stay
Just so the SUPPLE and receptive side can lead you through
🍑
SUPPLE.
In service to The Opening
Now enrolling. Apply below:
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