Most men think the battle against lust is about "stopping the urge." They spend their whole lives trying to suppress, ignore, or white-knuckle their way through the temptation.
That is why you keep failing.
When you define yourself by your struggle, you ensure that the struggle stays. You aren't "a guy fighting lust"—you are a man with a purpose that is being sabotaged by a bypass.
The secret isn’t willpower; it’s re-identification.
You have to reach a point where the lifestyle of distraction becomes repulsive to you—not because you’re forcing yourself to hate it, but because it is objectively beneath the level of man you have decided to become.
When you align your daily habits with a higher vision, you don't have to "fight" the urges as hard. You simply lose interest in things that don't serve the vision. You stop leaking your power because you finally realize exactly how much that power is worth.
If you are tired of playing small and you’re ready to build the discipline, and the systems to actually win, you need to be inside The Chosen Ones.
We aren't just talking about "not doing it." We are talking about becoming the version of yourself that doesn't even recognize the old version anymore.
You set a goal. You write it down. You commit. But then, as soon as the pressure mounts, you start looking for an "out." You offer yourself a compromise: "I'll do it tomorrow," or "This is good enough for now."
Every time you allow yourself to violate your own standard, you lose a piece of your integrity. And once your integrity is gone, you are just an empty shell of who you you're meant to be.
Keep the promises you make to yourself and I promise you your life will change significantly quicker..not saying it’s easy, but life rewards execution. Life rewards speed.
I speak more about it in yesterday’s video: You're lying to yourself and it’s costing you everything. watch here https://youtu.be/vpZUal8-M_Q
The Purposeful Man Playbook is a mirror. It forces you to stop the excuses. Stop the negotiation. And start the work: a.co/d/9uFESwy
99% of people spend their lives consuming what others have built. They watch, they like, they scroll. They are feeding the mission of someone else. It is time to flip the script. You were given gifts—use them.
Purpose Driven Creators is for those who are is ready to move from being a spectator in life to being an architect of his own output.
Free Game: Commit to ONE small creation act this week.
Examples: Write one insightful post/blog article about something you're passionate about.
Record one short, impactful video or audio note sharing knowledge/story.
Outline the first page of that book, business plan, or project you've been putting off.
Spend just 30 minutes actively building/designing something (physical or digital).
Creation is addictive. Start small. Move from consumer to creator. Join us in PDC to master the build.
🛑 Stop letting the cycle of lust dictate your future.
You know exactly what I’m talking about. That cycle of shame, the broken promises to yourself, and the feeling that you’re stuck in a loop you can’t break.
The worst part? It’s not just stealing your time..it’s stealing your power. It keeps you distracted, foggy, and disconnected from the calling God has on your life.
Here is the brutal truth most won’t tell you: Lust isn't just a "weakness" or a "habit." Lust is a displacement of energy. You were designed by the Creator to be a builder. When you aren't pouring your vital life force into a mission, a project, or a purpose, that energy doesn't just disappear. It turns inward, creates chaos in your mind, and seeks the easiest, most destructive exit path.
That is why you can’t just "try harder" to stop.
If you aren't building a future that excites you more than your current distraction, you will always slide back into the cycle. You don't need more willpower; you need a system that captures that energy and redirects it into your calling.That is why I created The Chosen Ones.This isn't just another program; it is the blueprint to reclaiming your mental energy, your focus, and your masculine authority.
You’ll get access to 100+ masterclasses designed specifically to help you break free and stay free.Today is the day you decide to win.If you are tired of losing, click the link below to join us. Let’s get you on the path to being the man you were called to be.
Most men live as if they are the last generation. They focus on their immediate comfort, their short-term pleasure, and their personal ease. But look deeper. Every choice you make today is a seed. If you spend your energy on distraction, you are poisoning the soil for your future.
If you decide to live a life that lacks purpose you are not just failing yourself—you are failing the generations after you.
A legacy isn't built in the spotlight; it is built in the silence (we always talk about focusing on yourself and going ghost), in the refusal to compromise your values, and in the relentless pursuit of your mission when no one is watching.
The Purposeful Man Playbook teaches you how to act like a man who knows he is part of a much larger narrative.
Your legacy starts with the next move you make. Read the playbook: a.co/d/9uFESwy
You are the average of the people you allow to shape your thinking.
You can have all the right intentions, but if you are surrounded by men who are okay with "good enough," you will never be great. You need an environment that pulls you up, not one that accommodates your excuses.
In Purpose Driven Creators, we don't just share tips on how to monetize and grow your content—we hold each other to a standard that makes mediocrity impossible.
Free Game: Audit your Top 3 Influences
Be brutally honest and list the 3 people you interact with most frequently (online or in-person) who influence your thoughts/ambitions. For each person, ask:
Does this person inspire me to bigger thinking/action, or normalize excuses/complacency?
Does their energy feel expansive (growth) or restrictive (status quo)?
Would I genuinely want their life, character, and mission to be my reality in 5 years?
Identify those who drain you. Then, find environments like Purpose Driven Creators that will multiply your potential.
Lust is not just about attraction. It's distraction. It's life force and energy leakage. It's wasted energy. It's the slow death of discipline, focus, and spiritual power.
A lot of men keep saying they want purpose, peace, confidence, and self control. But behind the scenes, they are feeding the very thing draining them.
That cycle does not break with guilt. It breaks with truth, structure, brotherhood, and real accountability.
That is exactly why I built Chosen Ones.
This is for men who are tired of feeling divided within themselves. Tired of falling into the same patterns. Tired of praying for change while protecting the habits destroying them.
Inside Chosen Ones, we focus on becoming a man who can actually govern himself. Spiritually. Mentally. Practically. Daily.
Because once a man conquers lust, everything changes. His mind gets clearer. His discipline gets stronger. His confidence becomes real. His presence carries weight. His relationship with God gets sharper. His purpose stops feeling far away.
You do not need another excuse. You need a standard. You need a system.
If you are truly ready to defeat lust and become the man you know you were called to be, join the Chosen Ones.
This is not for everybody. But if this message hit you in the chest, it's probably for you. Learn more about it here: chosen.forpurposedrivenmen.com/
For Purpose Driven Men
Most men think the battle against lust is about "stopping the urge." They spend their whole lives trying to suppress, ignore, or white-knuckle their way through the temptation.
That is why you keep failing.
When you define yourself by your struggle, you ensure that the struggle stays. You aren't "a guy fighting lust"—you are a man with a purpose that is being sabotaged by a bypass.
The secret isn’t willpower; it’s re-identification.
You have to reach a point where the lifestyle of distraction becomes repulsive to you—not because you’re forcing yourself to hate it, but because it is objectively beneath the level of man you have decided to become.
When you align your daily habits with a higher vision, you don't have to "fight" the urges as hard. You simply lose interest in things that don't serve the vision. You stop leaking your power because you finally realize exactly how much that power is worth.
If you are tired of playing small and you’re ready to build the discipline, and the systems to actually win, you need to be inside The Chosen Ones.
We aren't just talking about "not doing it." We are talking about becoming the version of yourself that doesn't even recognize the old version anymore.
Stop negotiating with your lower self. Join the movement here: chosen.forpurposedrivenmen.com/
Need more personalized help? Book a 1:1: calendly.com/forpurposedrivenmen
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why i won’t be on youtube as much..and where to find me https://youtu.be/oWEsCeb6SfA
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You set a goal. You write it down. You commit. But then, as soon as the pressure mounts, you start looking for an "out." You offer yourself a compromise: "I'll do it tomorrow," or "This is good enough for now."
Every time you allow yourself to violate your own standard, you lose a piece of your integrity. And once your integrity is gone, you are just an empty shell of who you you're meant to be.
Keep the promises you make to yourself and I promise you your life will change significantly quicker..not saying it’s easy, but life rewards execution. Life rewards speed.
I speak more about it in yesterday’s video: You're lying to yourself and it’s costing you everything. watch here
https://youtu.be/vpZUal8-M_Q
The Purposeful Man Playbook is a mirror. It forces you to stop the excuses. Stop the negotiation. And start the work: a.co/d/9uFESwy
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99% of people spend their lives consuming what others have built. They watch, they like, they scroll. They are feeding the mission of someone else. It is time to flip the script. You were given gifts—use them.
Purpose Driven Creators is for those who are is ready to move from being a spectator in life to being an architect of his own output.
Free Game: Commit to ONE small creation act this week.
Examples: Write one insightful post/blog article about something you're passionate about.
Record one short, impactful video or audio note sharing knowledge/story.
Outline the first page of that book, business plan, or project you've been putting off.
Spend just 30 minutes actively building/designing something (physical or digital).
Creation is addictive. Start small. Move from consumer to creator. Join us in PDC to master the build.
Stop consuming. Start creating: pdcapp.maliquedlewis.com/
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🛑 Stop letting the cycle of lust dictate your future.
You know exactly what I’m talking about. That cycle of shame, the broken promises to yourself, and the feeling that you’re stuck in a loop you can’t break.
The worst part? It’s not just stealing your time..it’s stealing your power. It keeps you distracted, foggy, and disconnected from the calling God has on your life.
Here is the brutal truth most won’t tell you:
Lust isn't just a "weakness" or a "habit." Lust is a displacement of energy. You were designed by the Creator to be a builder. When you aren't pouring your vital life force into a mission, a project, or a purpose, that energy doesn't just disappear. It turns inward, creates chaos in your mind, and seeks the easiest, most destructive exit path.
That is why you can’t just "try harder" to stop.
If you aren't building a future that excites you more than your current distraction, you will always slide back into the cycle. You don't need more willpower; you need a system that captures that energy and redirects it into your calling.That is why I created The Chosen Ones.This isn't just another program; it is the blueprint to reclaiming your mental energy, your focus, and your masculine authority.
You’ll get access to 100+ masterclasses designed specifically to help you break free and stay free.Today is the day you decide to win.If you are tired of losing, click the link below to join us. Let’s get you on the path to being the man you were called to be.
Join The Chosen Ones here: chosen.forpurposedrivenmen.com/
Need more personalized help? Book a 1:1: calendly.com/forpurposedrivenmen
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I left America for a new country
My wife and I made a video about our first 72 hours living abroad just for you.
Watch and subscribe here: Astrid & Malique https://youtu.be/wLC7jCXMhY0
before you watch..guess the country (comment below) 👇🏽 if you already know, don’t spoil it :)
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Your bloodline is waiting for you to wake up 🧬
Most men live as if they are the last generation. They focus on their immediate comfort, their short-term pleasure, and their personal ease. But look deeper. Every choice you make today is a seed. If you spend your energy on distraction, you are poisoning the soil for your future.
If you decide to live a life that lacks purpose you are not just failing yourself—you are failing the generations after you.
A legacy isn't built in the spotlight; it is built in the silence (we always talk about focusing on yourself and going ghost), in the refusal to compromise your values, and in the relentless pursuit of your mission when no one is watching.
The Purposeful Man Playbook teaches you how to act like a man who knows he is part of a much larger narrative.
Your legacy starts with the next move you make. Read the playbook: a.co/d/9uFESwy
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The Purposeful Man Playbook is for the man who is ready to start building a legacy. a.co/d/9uFESwy
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You are the average of the people you allow to shape your thinking.
You can have all the right intentions, but if you are surrounded by men who are okay with "good enough," you will never be great. You need an environment that pulls you up, not one that accommodates your excuses.
In Purpose Driven Creators, we don't just share tips on how to monetize and grow your content—we hold each other to a standard that makes mediocrity impossible.
Free Game: Audit your Top 3 Influences
Be brutally honest and list the 3 people you interact with most frequently (online or in-person) who influence your thoughts/ambitions. For each person, ask:
Does this person inspire me to bigger thinking/action, or normalize excuses/complacency?
Does their energy feel expansive (growth) or restrictive (status quo)?
Would I genuinely want their life, character, and mission to be my reality in 5 years?
Identify those who drain you. Then, find environments like Purpose Driven Creators that will multiply your potential.
Stop playing small. Join the creators circle: pdcapp.maliquedlewis.com/
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Most men aren't weak.
Their just undertrained.
Lust is not just about attraction.
It's distraction.
It's life force and energy leakage.
It's wasted energy.
It's the slow death of discipline, focus, and spiritual power.
A lot of men keep saying they want purpose, peace, confidence, and self control.
But behind the scenes, they are feeding the very thing draining them.
That cycle does not break with guilt.
It breaks with truth, structure, brotherhood, and real accountability.
That is exactly why I built Chosen Ones.
This is for men who are tired of feeling divided within themselves.
Tired of falling into the same patterns.
Tired of praying for change while protecting the habits destroying them.
Inside Chosen Ones, we focus on becoming a man who can actually govern himself.
Spiritually. Mentally. Practically. Daily.
Because once a man conquers lust, everything changes.
His mind gets clearer.
His discipline gets stronger.
His confidence becomes real.
His presence carries weight.
His relationship with God gets sharper.
His purpose stops feeling far away.
You do not need another excuse.
You need a standard.
You need a system.
If you are truly ready to defeat lust and become the man you know you were called to be, join the Chosen Ones.
This is not for everybody.
But if this message hit you in the chest, it's probably for you.
Learn more about it here: chosen.forpurposedrivenmen.com/
Need more personalized help? Book a 1:1: calendly.com/forpurposedrivenmen
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