Lisa Bilyeu

I've written my own Eulogy (a story for another time) and the TOP thing on it is being LOYAL! This is one of my CORE values in life so you better believe this is one of my biggest traps! You just tell me Im not being loyal and I will break my back to prove I am! But this is SUPER bloody dangerous!

Because I used to think and believe that loyalty means staying no matter what.

Now I know better!!!

Loyalty that requires you to betray yourself isn't loyalty...it's sacrifice without limits.

You should never have to shrink, silence yourself, or abandon your values just to keep someone comfortable. NEVER EVER EVER!!!!

The moment you start abandoning yourself to keep someone else, you've already lost something far more valuable than the relationship.

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Lisa Bilyeu

You lose NOTHING and gain EVERYTHING!*

(*Including self respect- which is PRICELESS!!!)

1 day ago | [YT] | 9,300

Lisa Bilyeu

Shout out to all the women healing from things no one ever apologized to them for!

2 days ago | [YT] | 12,483

Lisa Bilyeu

Internal peace is the bi-product of a healthy relationship. Not the cost of one! Remember that the next time you feel you have to choose!

3 days ago | [YT] | 6,852

Lisa Bilyeu

Aging means you’re still standing...And probably doing it in better shoes! 😉

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Lisa Bilyeu

Watch here 👉 lisabilyeu.watch/Shadow_Work_Explained

To uncover the hidden psychology driving toxic relationships, control, and manipulation.

“These men will pick on the weak vulnerability of women through seduction, and then once you're in the trap, they will then proceed to be sadistic, and their shadow comes out.” -Previn Karian

Most women aren't looking for danger.

They're looking for love.

But what if the very traits that seem attractive at first are hiding something much darker underneath?

This week on Women of Impact, philosophy researcher and shadow-work expert Previn Karian breaks down the psychology behind what Carl Jung called the "shadow", the hidden side of men that often doesn't appear until intimacy, commitment, and emotional investment are already on the table.

In this conversation, you'll discover:

• Why some men are secretly driven by deep feelings of inferiority, and how it shapes their behavior

• The disturbing connection between power, control, and what Freud called the sadistic drive

• How understanding your own shadow can help you stop attracting unhealthy relationship dynamics

If you've ever wondered why some relationships change completely after the honeymoon phase... this conversation will challenge everything you think you know.

Drop a ❤️ if you've ever ignored a red flag because you believed love could change someone.

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5 days ago (edited) | [YT] | 4,500

Lisa Bilyeu

We say we want emotionally available men…
But then we label those same traits as “feminine.”
You can’t ask men to open up while also making it feel like they’re stepping out of who they’re “supposed” to be!
Emotions aren’t gendered, homie...They’re human.
And the more we normalize that, the healthier our relationships become, on EVERY LEVEL!

6 days ago | [YT] | 8,810

Lisa Bilyeu

Okay homie, we're trying something new, and we need YOUR help! For the next 4 weeks, episodes will go live at 9:00 AM because we've noticed many of you are most active then. We want to make it as easy as possible for you to catch each episode the moment it drops. We pour so much love, research, and effort into every conversation, and we want to meet you where you are.

But here's the thing... This is a test. 🧪

After 4 weeks, we'll look at the data and your feedback to decide if this should become our new release time.

👇 So tell me:

Are you more likely to watch at 9 AM? Or is there another time that works better for you?

Your comments genuinely help us make better decisions, so let me know! ❤️

1 week ago | [YT] | 378

Lisa Bilyeu

TRUE STORY.... In my teenage years I used to REFUSE to let a guy help me with my luggage at an airport. I mean I ACTUALLY took it as an insult. Like what, I cant carry my own bag? Oh jeez 🤦‍♀️ Im actually embarrassed to write that now, but its true. Its "funny" how our insecurity show up. I mean I actually thought and believed that relying on a guy meant I wasn't capable. But with age and building my confidence I want to go back to that Lisa and "show her the light" lol. We all need each other and its about bloody time we stop the damn war. It doesn't make you weaker. It doesn't make you less valuable or worthy.

Yes I’ve built my dreams on my own two feet, but to pretend I am the same person with or without my hubby ‪@TomBilyeu‬ by my side is utter garbage. You shape eachother and NEITHER of us would be here today if we believed we didnt need the other.

He's by my side when I'm strong, and carries me when I'm weak. I cheer him on when he's bold and remind him what he's made of when he's not! THAT'S what partnership looks like! Two people lifting each other, building together, and refusing to let life harden their hearts. ❤️

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1 week ago (edited) | [YT] | 4,286

Lisa Bilyeu

Trust me, reality is a much better meal to eat, than hope with a side of delusion. 😏

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