Kelly R. Minter
she/her/hers

Hi, I’m Kelly!
With over 20 years of experience working with people from all walks of life, I now run a private therapy practice focused on LGBTQIA+ relationships and religious trauma recovery. In 2020, I stepped into the content creation space with the commitment to supporting our community—both in the therapy room and here on YouTube.

As a queer woman and licensed therapist, I bring both lived experience and professional training to these videos. This channel is a place for learning, unlearning, and finding meaning in your own story. My goal is to offer education, validation, and maybe even a laugh or two along the way. I am really glad you are here 💜

🟣 Instagram: @KellyRMinter | @AskAQueerTherapist

Disclaimer: The content shared here is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional therapy. Watching or interacting with this channel does not create a therapist-client relationship.


Kelly R. Minter

Just checking in to see how everyone's weekend is going! We spent yesterday with some out of town friends visiting and today (July 4th) we are having a quiet day at home after I am done with sessions. Gonna give Leo some sleepy cheese and hope he doesn't keep me up all night with the booms lol.

Wherever you are I hope you have an awesome weekend! Drop your plans below if you want, I love to hear what everyone is up to!

2 weeks ago | [YT] | 10

Kelly R. Minter

Well this mercury retrograde is retrograding. In true form, my computer I edit on died over the weekend and my new one won't be here until too late to reload my editing software and get this week's video out.

So I apologize for the skipped video, I'll get to the next one ASAP 🫶🏼

2 weeks ago | [YT] | 23

Kelly R. Minter

I have been working on something for a while and it's finally here!!!!

This app is for anyone who is interested in building stronger, healthier queer relationships. It's a self paced journey with multiple sections that coach you through the stuff keeping you from your best relational life, either with yourself, your current partner, or a future partner.

Check it out here: studio.com/kelly-r/queerconnect

3 weeks ago | [YT] | 20

Kelly R. Minter

Which relationship challenge shows up the most for queer couples you know?

1 month ago | [YT] | 11

Kelly R. Minter

What’s a green flag in relationships that people don’t talk about enough?

1 month ago | [YT] | 8

Kelly R. Minter

Happy Pride ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🖤🤎🩷🩵🤍

Today starts pride month 2026 and with it comes so many feelings.

Wherever you are in your journey, I hope you have fellow travelers.

And I hope you are finding peace and joy 🫶🏼

1 month ago | [YT] | 102

Kelly R. Minter

If you came out later in life, what was the hardest part?

1 month ago | [YT] | 14

Kelly R. Minter

Hey friends! I will be going live on Saturday, May 30, 2pm for Thrive level members and 2:30pm for everyone altogether! Can't wait to chat with everyone, msg me or comment here if you have specific questions you want me to answer during our time together. 💛💛

1 month ago | [YT] | 6