How Women Rebuild Self Trust Through Rhythm Hello ladies,
I'm all about cultivating self-trust and you can't trust what you don't know or understand.
Many women don't understand their bodies or biological rhythms and have strained mind-body connections.
We are not men and shouldn't behave like them but our society is built on masculine structures and systems which leave many women burnt out, displaced and disconnected from their core.
This masterclass helps you understand your biology as a woman on a deeper level so you can start practicing gentleness, self-consideration and self-compassion which you eventually receive from others when you do it long enough.
If you want your expensive energy to be sustainable, focus heavily on this training and apply the resources attached.
It's the most up to date of my healthy hormone protocol for my mum (she's 50) and I.
Please reach out if you have additional questions and hope you use this knowledge to set a healthy foundation for your expensive energy to thrive.❤️🖤
Hello ladies, Todays private masterclass is near and dear to my heart because it's the basis of all things. Your health.
Many women are unable to get themselves together daily because they simply don't have the energy. It's not a consistency problem, you are simply out of alignment with your hormonal and internal workings as a woman.
Inside this masterclass, you’ll learn why women are not designed to operate on one clock alone like society pushes.
We’ll unpack: 🔑The 2 clocks all women function by and the one that's the most neglected 🔑Why burnout is often rhythm disruption—not lazines 🔑 The big 4 hormones that shape your energy and motivation 🔑Why some days you feel magnetic/beautiful… and other days you feel self-critical, ugly and want to disappear 🔑How to structure your work, business, exercise and relationships around your hormonal strengths to prevent self sabotage 🔑The four phases of the female cycle and how to work with them instead of fighting them 🔑Why sleep, blood sugar and meal timing matter more than motivation 🔑 How to build routines that support your nervous system instead of overriding it
If you want your expensive energy to be sustainable, I strongly suggest you join this masterclass or catch the replay.
Sunday May 24th @ 2PM CST. A replay will be available.
Hello ladies, I’m presenting 90 Days to Expensive Beauty™: a container that guides you to focus intensely on yourself for 90 days straight.
The basis of this container is helping you learn to center, follow through on promises and date yourself. You will be guided to look within and take aligned action towards your highest version.
I started this container where you focus on your beauty, body and health in attempt to help you rebuild self trust.
Broken self trust is the root of our personal, relational & money problems as women. I started rebuilding mine by caring for my temple and following through on promises to myself no matter how small.
You don’t trust yourself therefore you extend distrust to others. You walk all over yourself therefore people walk all over you. Life, men and money respond to your relationship with self. This container is to help you improve said relationship with self.
Each day includes: 📖One scripture to anchor the principle 📝One expensive energy lesson 💭One reflection prompt to journal and script on 💥One aligned action to create tangible change 🎧An accompanying audio or supporting thought post (somedays, not everyday)
If you struggle with: ❗️Broken self-trust ❗️Overthinking that causes inaction ❗️Inconsistency with grooming or beauty routines ❗️ Starting and stopping self-care habits ❗️Feeling disconnected from your femininity ❗️ Looking polished publicly but chaotic privately ❗️Burnout and nervous system dysregulation ❗️ Low self-worth showing up as neglect ❗️Constant reinvention instead of sustainable habits ❗️Feeling “behind” in your appearance or lifestyle ❗️Saving your best for special occasions ❗️Difficulty maintaining standards
This structured container was built for you.
All you need is radical honesty and a will to follow through daily.
You will learn to maintain standards with yourself if you follow through the daily modules.
Good morning ladies, This week’s YouTube video is on the steps I took to achieve a six figure net worth by 30.
Wealth building requires consistency and intentionality. It’s not accidental. I want to talk more about money so please let me know what you would like my views on.
I’m not balling yet but I’m not in a bad spot for a 30 year old. I want the ladies in my community to be expensive in their energy 💥 and in the bank 🏦
I hosted a masterclass on Sunday on Color Psychology. in my community
This masterclass is for women, creators, and brands who want to use color more intentionally to elevate how they are perceived, whether in personal style, business, branding, or social spaces.
You’ll learn what each major color signals psychologically, when to use specific colors for the strongest effect, which shades read as luxury and authority, and the difference between attention-seeking colors and value-signaling colors.
The key takeaway is that color is not just aesthetic—it is a form of communication that shapes perceived value, trust, softness, power, and refinement.
By the end of this masterclass, you’ll understand how to choose colors that align with the treatment, respect, and presence you want to command, so you can dress for value rather than simply being noticed.
Many women are exhausted because they are performing worthiness instead of embodying expensive energy.
Performing worthiness looks like: 👏🏾Over-explaining your choices 👏🏾Proving you deserve rest, beauty, or ease 👏🏾Waiting for validation before you invest in yourself 👏🏾Treating self-care like a reward instead of a standard
Expensive energy doesn’t perform. It assumes.
An expensive woman doesn’t ask, “Am I allowed?” Her nervous system already knows she is.
She doesn’t hustle for approval. She doesn’t audition for love. She doesn’t decorate her life to be chosen.
She moves from an internal agreement: “I am already worthy of care, refinement, and support.”
That internal agreement changes everything. How she dresses. How she rests. How she spends. How she receives. How the world responds to her.
Expensive energy is not louder effort. It’s quieter certainty.
And the moment you stop performing your value, your life starts reflecting it.
Many women were not taught to fear God. They were taught to fear having.
😣Fear of money. 😣Fear of desire. 😣Fear of ease. 😣Fear of enjoying life before heaven.
Somewhere along the way, “the love of money is the root of all evil” was shortened, distorted, and weaponized into “money is evil.”
And generations of women learned to spiritualize struggle.
A member in our community shared this so beautifully:
“As a Christian, I believe there have been so many teachings that can keep one in a poor, struggle-till-we-get-to-heaven mindset. Yet the Bible talks about abundance and blessing… it allows me to stand in my royal lineage as a daughter of the King of Kings.”
This is the reframe many women are craving but were never given.
God is not glorified by depletion. Poverty is not proof of holiness. Suffering is not a requirement for worthiness.
Scripture is filled with abundance, inheritance, stewardship, beauty, provision, and overflow. What was missing was permission — especially for women.
When a woman understands her royal lineage, she no longer confuses humility with self-denial. She no longer confuses devotion with deprivation. She no longer feels guilty for desiring comfort, quality, or wealth.
She understands: 💸Money is a tool 💸Abundance is stewardship 💸Desire is not sinful 💸Receiving is not pride 💸Prosperity does not separate her from God — it aligns her with Him
Inside my work, we lovingly dismantle the shame, guilt, and religious conditioning that keeps women small while still honoring God, scripture, and spiritual integrity.
✨ If you’re ready to release the belief that desiring money makes you unholy — and reclaim abundance as part of your birthright — try my training:
LAJA’s Crypt
The ladies in my community are cultivating self trust and the results are evident! I’m soooo proud of them 🥹🥹🥹🥹
My name is Ashan-wa, I help women cultivate and sustain self-trust so they attract better treatment & outcomes in their body, relationship & life.
Join the winning team because we are where the money, health & hotness resides 🫶🏾😎
7 day free trial
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How Women Rebuild Self Trust Through Rhythm
Hello ladies,
I'm all about cultivating self-trust and you can't trust what you don't know or understand.
Many women don't understand their bodies or biological rhythms and have strained mind-body connections.
We are not men and shouldn't behave like them but our society is built on masculine structures and systems which leave many women burnt out, displaced and disconnected from their core.
This masterclass helps you understand your biology as a woman on a deeper level so you can start practicing gentleness, self-consideration and self-compassion which you eventually receive from others when you do it long enough.
If you want your expensive energy to be sustainable, focus heavily on this training and apply the resources attached.
It's the most up to date of my healthy hormone protocol for my mum (she's 50) and I.
Please reach out if you have additional questions and hope you use this knowledge to set a healthy foundation for your expensive energy to thrive.❤️🖤
Trial for 7 days free
My love and respect,
Ashan-wa
www.skool.com/lajas-soft-living-society-7130/class…
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Hello ladies,
Todays private masterclass is near and dear to my heart because it's the basis of all things. Your health.
Many women are unable to get themselves together daily because they simply don't have the energy. It's not a consistency problem, you are simply out of alignment with your hormonal and internal workings as a woman.
Inside this masterclass, you’ll learn why women are not designed to operate on one clock alone like society pushes.
We’ll unpack:
🔑The 2 clocks all women function by and the one that's the most neglected
🔑Why burnout is often rhythm disruption—not lazines
🔑 The big 4 hormones that shape your energy and motivation
🔑Why some days you feel magnetic/beautiful… and other days you feel self-critical, ugly and want to disappear
🔑How to structure your work, business, exercise and relationships around your hormonal strengths to prevent self sabotage
🔑The four phases of the female cycle and how to work with them instead of fighting them
🔑Why sleep, blood sugar and meal timing matter more than motivation
🔑 How to build routines that support your nervous system instead of overriding it
If you want your expensive energy to be sustainable, I strongly suggest you join this masterclass or catch the replay.
Sunday May 24th @ 2PM CST. A replay will be available.
Catch it live or watch the replay free for 7 days
www.skool.com/lajas-soft-living-society-7130/tomor…
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Introducing 90 Days to Expensive Beauty™
Hello ladies,
I’m presenting 90 Days to Expensive Beauty™: a container that guides you to focus intensely on yourself for 90 days straight.
The basis of this container is helping you learn to center, follow through on promises and date yourself. You will be guided to look within and take aligned action towards your highest version.
I started this container where you focus on your beauty, body and health in attempt to help you rebuild self trust.
Broken self trust is the root of our personal, relational & money problems as women. I started rebuilding mine by caring for my temple and following through on promises to myself no matter how small.
You don’t trust yourself therefore you extend distrust to others. You walk all over yourself therefore people walk all over you. Life, men and money respond to your relationship with self. This container is to help you improve said relationship with self.
Each day includes:
📖One scripture to anchor the principle
📝One expensive energy lesson
💭One reflection prompt to journal and script on
💥One aligned action to create tangible change
🎧An accompanying audio or supporting thought post (somedays, not everyday)
If you struggle with:
❗️Broken self-trust
❗️Overthinking that causes inaction
❗️Inconsistency with grooming or beauty routines
❗️ Starting and stopping self-care habits
❗️Feeling disconnected from your femininity
❗️ Looking polished publicly but chaotic privately
❗️Burnout and nervous system dysregulation
❗️ Low self-worth showing up as neglect
❗️Constant reinvention instead of sustainable habits
❗️Feeling “behind” in your appearance or lifestyle
❗️Saving your best for special occasions
❗️Difficulty maintaining standards
This structured container was built for you.
All you need is radical honesty and a will to follow through daily.
You will learn to maintain standards with yourself if you follow through the daily modules.
Dive in 🏊🏾♀️
www.skool.com/lajas-soft-living-society-7130/class…
7 days free trial
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Good morning ladies,
This week’s YouTube video is on the steps I took to achieve a six figure net worth by 30.
Wealth building requires consistency and intentionality. It’s not accidental. I want to talk more about money so please let me know what you would like my views on.
I’m not balling yet but I’m not in a bad spot for a 30 year old. I want the ladies in my community to be expensive in their energy 💥 and in the bank 🏦
Have a watch and let me know your thoughts 💭
Here’s the post with a snapshot of my current financials: www.skool.com/lajas-soft-living-society-7130/my-pr…
https://youtu.be/NyrRTtE0n6k
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You don’t fall in love fast
You attach fast.
And those are not the same thing.
Because love requires time.
It requires observation.
It requires evidence.
I released a training recently on The Queen of Sheba and how powerful women deal with powerful men.
If you’ve ever felt like you need to shrink yourself for a man.
This is for you and is rooted in scripture and feminine principles.
Trial for 7 days before locking in
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I did a master class on ‘How to not fall in love with men’
If heart break is your norm, this masterclass is for you.
You will learn how to guard your heart from the wrong men and not awaken love before it’s due time. Practical instructions & mindset shifts.
Access it for free for 7 days.
Let me know your thoughts 💭
www.skool.com/lajas-soft-living-society-7130/class…
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LAJA’s Crypt
I hosted a masterclass on Sunday on Color Psychology. in my community
This masterclass is for women, creators, and brands who want to use color more intentionally to elevate how they are perceived, whether in personal style, business, branding, or social spaces.
You’ll learn what each major color signals psychologically, when to use specific colors for the strongest effect, which shades read as luxury and authority, and the difference between attention-seeking colors and value-signaling colors.
The key takeaway is that color is not just aesthetic—it is a form of communication that shapes perceived value, trust, softness, power, and refinement.
By the end of this masterclass, you’ll understand how to choose colors that align with the treatment, respect, and presence you want to command, so you can dress for value rather than simply being noticed.
www.skool.com/lajas-soft-living-society-7130/class…
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Many women are exhausted because they are performing worthiness instead of embodying expensive energy.
Performing worthiness looks like:
👏🏾Over-explaining your choices
👏🏾Proving you deserve rest, beauty, or ease
👏🏾Waiting for validation before you invest in yourself
👏🏾Treating self-care like a reward instead of a standard
Expensive energy doesn’t perform.
It assumes.
An expensive woman doesn’t ask, “Am I allowed?”
Her nervous system already knows she is.
She doesn’t hustle for approval.
She doesn’t audition for love.
She doesn’t decorate her life to be chosen.
She moves from an internal agreement:
“I am already worthy of care, refinement, and support.”
That internal agreement changes everything.
How she dresses.
How she rests.
How she spends.
How she receives.
How the world responds to her.
Expensive energy is not louder effort.
It’s quieter certainty.
And the moment you stop performing your value,
your life starts reflecting it.
Take my life changing worthiness audio. 7 days free⬇️
www.skool.com/lajas-soft-living-society-7130/class…
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Many women were not taught to fear God.
They were taught to fear having.
😣Fear of money.
😣Fear of desire.
😣Fear of ease.
😣Fear of enjoying life before heaven.
Somewhere along the way, “the love of money is the root of all evil” was shortened, distorted, and weaponized into
“money is evil.”
And generations of women learned to spiritualize struggle.
A member in our community shared this so beautifully:
“As a Christian, I believe there have been so many teachings that can keep one in a poor, struggle-till-we-get-to-heaven mindset. Yet the Bible talks about abundance and blessing… it allows me to stand in my royal lineage as a daughter of the King of Kings.”
This is the reframe many women are craving but were never given.
God is not glorified by depletion.
Poverty is not proof of holiness.
Suffering is not a requirement for worthiness.
Scripture is filled with abundance, inheritance, stewardship, beauty, provision, and overflow.
What was missing was permission — especially for women.
When a woman understands her royal lineage, she no longer confuses humility with self-denial.
She no longer confuses devotion with deprivation.
She no longer feels guilty for desiring comfort, quality, or wealth.
She understands:
💸Money is a tool
💸Abundance is stewardship
💸Desire is not sinful
💸Receiving is not pride
💸Prosperity does not separate her from God — it aligns her with Him
Inside my work, we lovingly dismantle the shame, guilt, and religious conditioning that keeps women small while still honoring God, scripture, and spiritual integrity.
✨ If you’re ready to release the belief that desiring money makes you unholy — and reclaim abundance as part of your birthright — try my training:
Money Is the Root of All Evil
www.skool.com/lajas-soft-living-society-7130/class…
You were never meant to struggle your way to heaven.
You were meant to represent the Kingdom well — here, now, and fully provided for.
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