When you were growing up, what was one thing you were always told? đ« Don't climb. đ« Don't run. đ« Be careful. đ« You'll get hurt. Now be honest... Do you hear yourself saying the exact same things to your kids? I caught myself doing it recently while watching my boys play. It made me wonder... Am I protecting them from danger? Or am I protecting myself from fear? My new video is about something that completely changed the way I think about parenting and why letting kids take healthy risks might actually make them safer, more confident, and more capable. I'd love to know before you watch: đ What's one "risky" thing your child loves doing that makes your heart race? I'll be reading every comment.
A few days ago, I was sitting with my friends for coffee and catching up on life.
Somewhere between school updates and toddler stories, one of them said something that made all of us pause.
She confessed, âI worry Iâm expecting too much from my child⊠but I donât know how to stop.â
Her honesty was disarming. Before any of us could respond, another mom shared a memory about a letter her childâs school had sent during exam week.
âThere was one line,â she said, âthat changed how I look at my childâs performance forever.â
It read: âAmong these students, thereâs an artist who isnât built for math, a dreamer who may not shine in history, a child who learns by movement, not textbooks.â
Somewhere between worksheets, tests, and expectations, itâs easy to forget that every child carries their own kind of brilliance.
And it reminded me of something we often overlook: Our children donât need us to mold them into someone elseâs idea of success. They need us to notice who they already are.
So hereâs your reminder â gentle, simple, grounding: âą Look for their spark, not just their score. âą Celebrate progress, not perfection. âą Guard their confidence the way you guard their health. âą And let them grow in the direction that feels natural to them.
One day, they wonât remember the marks. But they will remember how we made them feel while they were learning.
Take a moment today.
Breathe.
And remind yourself: youâre raising a human, not a report card.
I am doing an exclusive webinar on Calm Parenting - where you learn with me how to co regulate, how are different tantrums and strategies to handle them. We also deep dive into what are the gaps you are facing in your parenting that is not letting you parent the way you want.
When I became a mother, I lost myself before I found my strength.
The moment you hold your baby, everyone celebrates the new life.
But rarely does anyone acknowledge the woman who just gave birth to a completely new version of herselfâone she doesnât quite recognize yet.
The identity shift hits hard. Youâre no longer just âyouââyouâre someoneâs entire world, and your own world shrinks to feeding schedules and diaper changes.
The woman who had meetings, hobbies, and uninterrupted thoughts feels like a distant memory.
The loneliness is real, even in a full house.
Youâre surrounded by people, yet isolated in your experience.
Friends without kids canât quite relate, and leaving the house feels like planning a military operation.
The silence of lost connections echoes louder than baby cries at 3 AM.
Your career takes an unexpected backseat.
Whether you return to work or stay home, guilt becomes your shadow.
Working makes you feel like youâre missing out.
Staying home makes you feel invisible. The ambitious professional you were now negotiates with a tiny human who doesnât care about deadlines.
But even after all this,
You adapt, evolve, and discover a resilience you never knew existed.
You learn to ask for help. You redefine success.
You find your village, even if it looks different than expected.
And slowly, you integrate all the parts of who you were with who youâre becoming.
To every mom navigating this journey:
Your struggle is valid, your feelings matter, and youâre not alone.
Whatâs one thing you wish someone had told you about motherhood?
Is your toddlerâs anger leaving you exhausted and confused? One minute theyâre fine, next minute, meltdown!
Whether youâre parenting a 2-year-old or a preschooler, these positive parenting tips will help you stop labelling your child as ânaughtyâ and instead build emotional intelligence, resilience, and a deep connection.
Rahela Tayyebi
When you were growing up, what was one thing you were always told?
đ« Don't climb.
đ« Don't run.
đ« Be careful.
đ« You'll get hurt.
Now be honest...
Do you hear yourself saying the exact same things to your kids?
I caught myself doing it recently while watching my boys play. It made me wonder...
Am I protecting them from danger?
Or am I protecting myself from fear?
My new video is about something that completely changed the way I think about parenting and why letting kids take healthy risks might actually make them safer, more confident, and more capable.
I'd love to know before you watch:
đ What's one "risky" thing your child loves doing that makes your heart race?
I'll be reading every comment.
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Rahela Tayyebi
A few days ago, I was sitting with my friends for coffee and catching up on life.
Somewhere between school updates and toddler stories, one of them said something that made all of us pause.
She confessed, âI worry Iâm expecting too much from my child⊠but I donât know how to stop.â
Her honesty was disarming.
Before any of us could respond, another mom shared a memory about a letter her childâs school had sent during exam week.
âThere was one line,â she said, âthat changed how I look at my childâs performance forever.â
It read:
âAmong these students, thereâs an artist who isnât built for math, a dreamer who may not shine in history, a child who learns by movement, not textbooks.â
Somewhere between worksheets, tests, and expectations, itâs easy to forget that every child carries their own kind of brilliance.
And it reminded me of something we often overlook:
Our children donât need us to mold them into someone elseâs idea of success.
They need us to notice who they already are.
So hereâs your reminder â gentle, simple, grounding:
âą Look for their spark, not just their score.
âą Celebrate progress, not perfection.
âą Guard their confidence the way you guard their health.
âą And let them grow in the direction that feels natural to them.
One day, they wonât remember the marks.
But they will remember how we made them feel while they were learning.
Take a moment today.
Breathe.
And remind yourself: youâre raising a human, not a report card.
I am doing an exclusive webinar on Calm Parenting - where you learn with me how to co regulate, how are different tantrums and strategies to handle them. We also deep dive into what are the gaps you are facing in your parenting that is not letting you parent the way you want.
Join here
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Rahela Tayyebi
When I became a mother, I lost myself before I found my strength.
The moment you hold your baby, everyone celebrates the new life.
But rarely does anyone acknowledge the woman who just gave birth to a completely new version of herselfâone she doesnât quite recognize yet.
The identity shift hits hard. Youâre no longer just âyouââyouâre someoneâs entire world, and your own world shrinks to feeding schedules and diaper changes.
The woman who had meetings, hobbies, and uninterrupted thoughts feels like a distant memory.
The loneliness is real, even in a full house.
Youâre surrounded by people, yet isolated in your experience.
Friends without kids canât quite relate, and leaving the house feels like planning a military operation.
The silence of lost connections echoes louder than baby cries at 3 AM.
Your career takes an unexpected backseat.
Whether you return to work or stay home, guilt becomes your shadow.
Working makes you feel like youâre missing out.
Staying home makes you feel invisible. The ambitious professional you were now negotiates with a tiny human who doesnât care about deadlines.
But even after all this,
You adapt, evolve, and discover a resilience you never knew existed.
You learn to ask for help. You redefine success.
You find your village, even if it looks different than expected.
And slowly, you integrate all the parts of who you were with who youâre becoming.
To every mom navigating this journey:
Your struggle is valid, your feelings matter, and youâre not alone.
Whatâs one thing you wish someone had told you about motherhood?
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Rahela Tayyebi
Is your toddlerâs anger leaving you exhausted and confused? One minute theyâre fine, next minute, meltdown!
Whether youâre parenting a 2-year-old or a preschooler, these positive parenting tips will help you stop labelling your child as ânaughtyâ and instead build emotional intelligence, resilience, and a deep connection.
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Watch here
https://youtu.be/GdFm0ZY9gtk
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I have been there and what you are going through is tough.
Watch it here :)
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