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We are Abisola & Seyi Shof, a fun-loving duo making marriage fun. We are so excited that you've found our YouTube channel, and can't wait for you to be a part of our family on here.

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Year 13 💕

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Happy Easter from The Shofs

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I'm excited to share this book that I wrote as a guide for couples who want to make informed decisions about starting a family.

www.theshofs.com/sickle-cell

In Love Does Care, I talk about:
• What genotype compatibility actually means
• Why awareness alone hasn’t reduced sickle cell rates
• The real options carrier couples have (medical, ethical, emotional)
• Faith, culture, and the tension around reproductive choices
• The stories we don’t usually say out loud

This book lays out the full picture. My goal is that no one says, “I didn’t know.”

Love does care enough to make informed decisions.



Get your copy here: www.theshofs.com/sickle-cell

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Merry Christmas from The Shofs

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Hello from NYC 🏙️🗽

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Thirty-ATE 🎉

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Today marks 20 years in the USA 🇺🇸 and what better time to share our grassroots story?

20 years ago, we said goodbye to our home in 🇳🇬, and came to the USA with big dreams. 3 years later, we’d meet for the first time at a graduation party.

As international students, we hustled.
I tutored math on campus, and every once in a while braided my friends’ hair, or babysat a sweet one-year-old boy.

Meanwhile, Seyi tutored math on campus too. He tried to flip used cars, and in grad school joined a startup building augmented-reality glasses like Meta Ray Bans, long before they were mainstream. That’s probably where his love for startups began.

By the time we got married, we had “grown-up” jobs, but the hustle didn’t stop.
👉🏽 I launched TradsLoft, selling ready-to-wear African print, with Seyi as my side-kick.
👉🏽 Seyi built “His Arena” (a church management platform) and Whipik (a storytelling platform for African writers).
👉🏽 Together, we started investing in real estate, startups, and stocks.

Motherhood shifted my path again.
During maternity leave, I launched a blog, “Simple Naija Girl”. That turned into our podcast Life and Some Jara… and eventually into The Shofs you know today.

As we look back on the past 20 years, we’re grateful for every twist, challenge, and blessing. God has been so good to us, and our story is still just beginning.

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Hello Spring 🌼🌿

1 year ago | [YT] | 291

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A new dating show by The Shofs, on finding love over spicy food. Watch here: https://youtu.be/jmEPLsoZNhM

1 year ago | [YT] | 7

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May this season bring us all joy and happiness ❤️

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