Dear Fellow INFJ

Specifically made for INFJs but honestly, anyone who's been forcing life needs to watch this.

3 days ago | [YT] | 23

Dear Fellow INFJ

Welcome back, INFJ.

1 week ago | [YT] | 24

Dear Fellow INFJ

Everything has a limit. Once you cross it, nothing feels the way it used to.

It is ordinary, really. Think about your first paycheck. The feeling is unlike anything else, something that stays with you for the rest of your life. The days before receiving it, and the days immediately after, carry a kind of excitement you will never experience again, no matter how much your salary grows. The next month it fades a little. Then a little more. Eventually, payday becomes just another day. There is no meaningful difference between the day before, the day itself, and the day after. Perhaps it is simply dopamine.

Economics would call it diminishing utility. Once total utility reaches its peak, satisfaction can do little more than remain where it is, if it does not begin to decline. I am not entirely sure reality is that precise, but it often feels that way.

Perhaps everything works like this.
The pain that consumes you today, if endured tomorrow, next month, and next year, slowly stops feeling like pain. The waiting that exhausts you now, if carried long enough, ceases to resemble waiting at all. Even the grief of never receiving what you longed for becomes so familiar that the possibility of finally receiving it feels stranger than its absence.

Human psychology is a peculiar thing. Whatever we keep thinking about, whatever we repeat to ourselves often enough, eventually begins to feel more convincing than reality itself. They call it the illusory truth effect. Once a belief settles in, returning from it can feel almost impossible. A single imagination gives birth to speculation. Speculation feeds imagination. Before long, you are trapped inside a recursive maze of your own making. The more time you spend there than in reality, the more that imagined world hardens into truth. Perhaps it even reshapes the architecture of the brain. Perhaps it alters the chemistry of hormones. It is a frightening thought.

I often wonder whether reaching the limit of any emotion is somehow connected to this endless cycle of imagination and speculation. We seek refuge in imagined worlds to survive unbearable feelings. Then something changes. I do not know what. Perhaps the imagined version becomes so familiar that it starts feeling natural. And when the thing we once desperately wished for finally arrives, it is no longer the fulfillment that feels natural. It is the fulfillment itself that feels foreign.
Maybe that is what people mean when they look at someone and quietly say,

"You've changed."

1 week ago | [YT] | 42

Dear Fellow INFJ

Why INFJs are natural psychologist..

2 weeks ago | [YT] | 24

Dear Fellow INFJ

As an INFJ, what's your biggest regret?

3 weeks ago | [YT] | 30

Dear Fellow INFJ

If you are an INFJ, this video explains your relationships and how other INFJs observation about their relationships. Hope, it will resonate with you.

3 weeks ago | [YT] | 7

Dear Fellow INFJ

My dear fellow INFJ, a new video is coming today. In this video, I didn’t just share research and my observations. I also included how others feel and what they say exactly. I hope many of you can relate to it. See you soon!

3 weeks ago | [YT] | 57

Dear Fellow INFJ

Sorry for being away for so long. I'll be back to you soon.

3 weeks ago | [YT] | 71

Dear Fellow INFJ

Are you an INFJ and do you have any kind of parasomnia? (If you have, you can share it in the comments.)

1 month ago | [YT] | 30

Dear Fellow INFJ

Most INFJs are not healing because they are waiting for proof their pain was serious enough. It was. New video explains everything.

1 month ago | [YT] | 21