That Husband Podcast

Hey good people!! Sorry we've been so quiet here in the community post streets! We promise our ways are being corrected!

Just incase you missed it in the last few episodes we have a special breakfast installment of Beans And Bonds with Jabu Zwane happening THIS saturday. We are discussing the baggage we don't realise we bring into our relationships get your tickets at thathusband.com/

Check out Jabu him in one of our recent episodes if you aren't familiar

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EMz7H...

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2 weeks ago | [YT] | 135

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If you haven’t watched our latest episodes, it’s time to catch up.



This week we sat down with Gift Maseko, who shares his unconventional journey into marriage, fatherhood, and leading a new church. From having a baby before marriage to navigating financial pressure while building a life of faith and responsibility, Gift reflects on why — despite the challenges — he would still choose to marry young.

Watch “A Baby Before Marriage, Leading In Church & Money Struggles: Why I’d Still Marry Young”
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GAA4C...

Last week we welcomed the ever-vibrant DJ Sabby, who opened up about his own journey into commitment. Growing up without clear examples of healthy marriage, Sabby speaks honestly about the intentional choices he’s made to build a different kind of family — one grounded in love, presence, and legacy.

Watch “What A Man Loses And Gains When He Stops Living For Himself And Commits To Love”
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c1Yum...

And finally, we wrapped up our Yellow Is The New Red Valentine’s series with attorney Tebello Motshwane. In this episode, Tebello challenges us to think more deeply about the legal side of marriage — unpacking pre-nups, marital contracts, and why understanding the legal foundation of your union is just as important as the emotional one.

Watch “Signing A Pre-Nup Doesn’t Mean You’re Preparing For A Divorce”
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HPPyV...

As always, Let us know what you think!

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4 months ago | [YT] | 579

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Incase you missed it - last week we released Episode 3 of our Yellow Is The New Red Valentine’s series, Blaque Nubon sits down with ‪@MpoomyLedwaba‬ — a woman who leads boldly in the world yet chooses softness, reverence, and intentionality at home.

With honesty and quiet conviction, Mpoomy speaks about submission not as silence, but as strength. About celebration not as grand gestures, but rather as thoughtful acts, guarding sacred moments, and choosing humility even when pride resists. She reminds us that when a man creates safety, love flows naturally, and when he protects her growth, she instinctively protects his heart.

This conversation is reflective, tender, and at times uncomfortable in the best way. It challenges husbands to examine ego, safety, and leadership, while inviting wives to consider how powerful women can honour their men without losing themselves. More than romance, it reframes celebration as being seen, respected, and intentionally chosen.

Watch the full episode: Now “Why Being Soft Feels Unsafe For Powerful Wives.”

Also remember to get your tickets for Beans and Bonds happening 28th Feb with Mogale Mohale. Tickets available at thathusband.com/

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4 months ago | [YT] | 600

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Last week we hit 40,000 subscribers and it’s all because of every single one of you.

Thank you for watching.
Thank you for commenting.
Thank you for challenging, sharpening, and growing with us.

What started as a conversation is becoming a movement. If you’ve been here from episode one, thank you for building this with us. And if you’ve just joined the community, welcome aboard!

We’re taking the conversation offline at our first Beans & Bonds gathering for 2026, where we’ll be wrapping up our theme, Yellow Is The New Red, with Mogale Mohale.

If you’ve ever wanted to experience these conversations in the room — this is your moment.

Tickets available at:
www.thathusband.com/

Here’s to the next 40K.

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4 months ago | [YT] | 532

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For Episode 2 of our Yellow Is The New Red valentines series, Blaque Nubon sits down with Mosili Pebane who is obviously not a husband, but rather an ex-wife — opening space for an honest, reflective dialogue many of us rarely get access to.

Drawing from lived experience, healing, and hard-earned clarity, Mosili on hits and misses in her marriage and lessons learned after divorce.

This conversation explores what husbands often carry silently: invisible pressures, unmet needs, misunderstanding, and the quiet cost of not being celebrated well. It challenges assumptions about provision, respect, honour, and emotional presence. This isn’t about blame or rehashing the past. It’s about maturity, growth, and learning

Watch the full episode:
“I Became The Wife I Was Trained To Be, But Not The Wife He Needed.”

Also remember to get your tickets for Beans and Bonds happening 28th Feb with Mogale Mohale. Tickets available at thathusband.com/

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5 months ago | [YT] | 347

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We’re flipping the script this Valentine’s month because Yellow Is the New Red.

Instead of centering romance around the ladies alone, this series asks a powerful and often overlooked question: How do wives intentionally celebrate and honour their husbands?

Blaque Nubon sits down with @BuliMakhubo, who brings honesty, vulnerability, and practical wisdom as she shares what it looks like to show up for her husband in ways that go beyond clichés and expectations.

Together, we unpack the idea that celebration isn’t always about grand gestures. Often, it looks like attentiveness, thoughtfulness, emotional presence, and intentional softness. This conversation explores love languages, breaking patterns of familiarity and complacency, and challenges the quiet cultural assumption that men don’t need affirmation or emotional support.

Watch the episode live on our channel now.

And don’t forget — the conversation continues offline.

Join us at Beans & Bonds, where we wrap up this month’s theme with Mogale Mohale.

Get your tickets here:
www.thathusband.com/

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5 months ago | [YT] | 377

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Hey good people! We’re so sorry — there won’t be a Monday Mindset LIVE today but we will be back with a special offering next week! That said, if you haven’t already, now’s a great time to catch up on our latest episodes.

We kicked off the year with Martin Mgiba, who unpacked what leadership in the home looks like — even when your wife disagrees.

After that, we sat down with our friend and regular guest Themba Tom Ntuli for an honest conversation on sex and faith, exploring why so many married Christians struggle with intimacy.

And just last week, Simphiwe Petros shared his powerful story of choosing commitment and marriage despite what seemed like impossible odds.

Let us know which episode has impacted you the most so far!

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5 months ago | [YT] | 109

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Empathy will not fix your marriage.
Compassion might!

Monday Mindset is a space to challenge how we love, lead, and show up at home — moving beyond awareness into responsibility.

Monday Mindsets — LIVE on YouTube
TONIGHT | 7PM
Set your reminder and join the conversation.

Let’s have the conversations that reshape marriages, reframe husbandhood, and restore connection. See you later!

#MondayMindset
#ThatHusbandPodcast
#MarriageMatters
#CompassionOverControl
#RedefiningHusbandhood

5 months ago | [YT] | 53

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HAPPY NEW YEAR GOOD PEOPLE! 🥂
We’re back and we're starting the year with intention.

Being right can win an argument.
Being connected can protect a marriage.

In a culture that rewards volume, certainty, and winning, many of us were never taught to value connection over control, understanding over ego, partnership over pride.

This Monday Mindset, we’re challenging the assumption that strength in relationships looks like proving your point. Sometimes real strength looks like listening longer, softening your posture, and choosing the relationship over the moment.

Monday Mindsets — LIVE on Youtube
TONIGHT| 7PM
Set your reminder and join the conversation.

Let’s have the conversations that reshape marriages, reframe husbandhood, and restore connection.

6 months ago | [YT] | 64

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What Happens When Men Stop Pretending & Tell The Truth?

For our final episode of 2025, we bring you a special conversation from the Jaecoo Grootman’s Table live event where Blaque Nubon sat down with Penson Mlotshwa, DJ Sabby, and Zweli Dube for one of our most honest explorations of masculinity yet.

This episode is divided into three powerful parts:

The Mind — with Penson Mlotshwa
How men think behind the silence, the pressure we carry, the expectations we absorb, and the internal battles we rarely name.

The Soul — with DJ Sabby
Purpose, identity, grounding, character, and the spiritual/emotional work required to become whole.

The Body — with Zweli Dube
Discipline, health, confidence, and why the way we treat our bodies shapes every other part of our lives.


If you’ve ever needed language for what you’re feeling, or clarity for the man you’re becoming, this conversation will meet you where you are.

Tune in to close the year with honesty, reflection, and brotherhood.

Watch Now - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wOhFX...

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